My older daughter has always been eager to read. To do things she is rather supposed to be doing? Not so much.
A couple years ago, we “gently reminded” her about some tidying she needed to attend in the playroom. She retorted, “I’m a bookworm, not a choreworm!”
And now that remark is recorded for posterity.
Just remember…your kids are going to pick your retirement home. So be nice!
Two words: Living will.